J.H. Benson

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Selected Rules of Civility and Decent Behaviour by George Washington

The Book, title as above, included 110 rules and was completed when George was 14 years of age. Included are but a few, but the wisdom in the 110 is well beyond intelligence.

  • Sleep not when others speak, sit not when others stand, speak not when you should hold your peace, walk not on when others stop.

  • Let your countenance be pleasant, but in serious matters somewhat grave.

  • In writing or speaking, give every person his due title according to his degree and the custom of the place.

  • Strive not with your superiors in argument, but always submit your judgment to others with modesty.

  • Do not express joy before the sick or in pain, for that contrary passion will aggravate his misery.

  • Be not hasty to believe flying reports to the disparagement of others.

  • Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for it is better to be alone than in bad company.

  • Never express anything unbecoming, nor act against the rules moral before your inferiors.

  • Utter not base and frivolous things among grave and learned men; nor very difficult questions or subjects among the ignorant, or with things hard to be believed, stuff not your discourse with sentences amongst your betters nor equals.

  • A man ought not to value himself of his achievements or rare qualities of wit, much less of his riches, virtue or kindred.

  • Think before you speak; pronounce not imperfectly nor bring out your words too hastily, but orderly and distinctly.